What to do when a child says “I Hate Reading”

Hearing a child say “I hate reading” can feel discouraging—especially when you know how important literacy is. The good news? That statement usually isn’t about reading itself.


Why Kids Say “I Hate Reading”

Often, kids mean:

  • “Reading feels hard.”
  • “I’m afraid of making mistakes.”
  • “I don’t like being corrected.”
  • “I don’t connect with the books I’m given.”

Understanding this helps us respond with support instead of pressure.


What Not to Do

  • Don’t force longer reading sessions
  • Don’t compare them to other readers
  • Don’t turn reading into a punishment

These approaches usually deepen resistance.


What Helps Instead

1. Change the Format
Try audiobooks, read-alouds, or graphic novels.

2. Lower the Stakes
Short reading sessions count. Even 5–10 minutes matters.

3. Build Connection
Read together. Talk about stories casually—no quizzes required.

4. Offer a Creative Response
Instead of asking questions, invite kids to:

  • Draw a favorite part
  • Write one sentence
  • Share a feeling about the story

Journaling as a Gentle Entry Point

Journaling gives kids a way to respond without pressure. There are no wrong answers, no grades—just space to think and express.


“I hate reading” is often a sign that a child needs support, not more instruction. With patience, flexibility, and low-pressure tools, reading can slowly become enjoyable again.

Let’s encourage our kiddos with being okay with making the reading experience a little different so that enjoy it and grow as a reader.

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